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Over and over again, I am seeing a recurring theme. Women are hurting, yet feeling like there is no one to talk to about what concerns them or weighs them down. It is as if the devil himself has decided to pick on the women now. Let's face it, he (the devil) has enough men who are out of place that it makes the few who are doing the darn thing abnormal. Now if the women are at a loss/thrown off balance, don't you see why our children will be on the wrong path. Is it not bad enough that when we came here as slaves, family structure for us was not considered important. Now, we make it seem that it is not a priority. Women are too busy with the day-to-day hustle and bustle of life. They don't have time to make a family what it should be. They are too busy trying to make sure that the family can eat, have running water, and lights. There is no time to be who were created to be. The sad part is that we are so busy that we don't even recognize the hand of the enemy at work. It is shameful the amount of children who don't feel loved that live in the world today. The need of attention is going to turn into negative attention for the vast majority of those individuals. It is also sad that this world is designed that women don't even have time to recognize the tale-tale signs taht something is wrong with their children. I am just trying to figure out why women are criticized for everything to the nth degree when men can do whatever and it is all good.

Can anyone help?

Why?

Why do we, women, deny ourselves? Why do we live our lives in a manner that pleases others but causes us to feel limited? Why do we allow others to mold us into what they think we should be? Is it because we have the fairy tale mentality and want to be loved and cared for and believe deep down inside that if we please others, we will ultimately be rewarded?

Why do we, women, hate on each other? Why do we get positions of power and let them go to our head, forget from whence we came, and have the audacity to treat others as less than because their paychecks, houses, cars, etc are not on our level?

Why do we, women, settle--for less? Why are we becoming make do individuals just to be able to say that we are with someone? Does our happiness count for anything? Can we not be successful and happily single? And for those that are married, do we have to snub those that are not or murder them with the "When you planning on settling down?"

Why do we women refuse to admit our feelings? Don't we know that holding on to hurt, anger, pain, disappointment, resentment, etc kills us daily?

Somebody, please tell me why?

Hello

I don't know about anyone else, but I truly feel that women need to have the opportunity to express their opinions in an environment that allows them to do so without being criticized by their friends and loved ones. I am a married, working mother of three biological and one acquired. I have two grandchildren. My job requries a lot from me and so does my family. I want to be able to make both my family life and my professional life work, but there are times when I feel like giving up. Sure no one wants to admit it, but the more I listen to women, truly listen to women, I realize that we are crying out for help. It is imperative that women stand up and support each other. This blog site was created to give women the opportunity to let it all out. No one has to know who you are. Get it out! Get it out! Get it out!